367、天堂的婚姻是两个人心智的合而为一的结合。首先要解释一下这种结合。心智由两部分构成，一部分被称为理智，另一部分被称为意志。｛注1｝当这两部分合二为一时，它们便被称为一个心智。在天堂里，丈夫扮演的角色叫做理智，妻子扮演的角色叫做意志。当属于人内层的这个结合降至属于身体的较低事物时，它被感知并感觉为爱，这爱就是婚姻之爱。｛注2｝由此可以清楚地看见，婚姻之爱起源于二个心智合为一个心智的结合，在天堂这被称为“同居”，他们不再被称为“二”，而被称为“一”。所以在天堂，已婚的一对不被称为两位天使，而是一位天使。｛注3｝
｛注1｝：【英230】参见上文第60节，其中使用平行术语“理解和意愿”而不是“智力和意志”。【中】此处英文版为“intellect and volition”，有英文版译为“understanding and will”。有中文版译为“理解力和意愿”，本中文版译为“理智和意志”（作名词时）、“理解和意愿”（作动词时）。
｛注2｝：【英231】史威登堡经常通过界定具体的对象来区分不同类型的爱（例如，“爱自己”【amor sui】、“爱主”【amor in Dominum】），但将“婚姻之爱”（amor conjugialis ） 作为一种技术术语，按类型分类。当前的段落在一个层面上对该术语作了良好的定义。然而，史威登堡认为已婚男女之间的这种理想关系对应于婚姻之爱的属灵的、属天的和神性的表现——对良善的爱与对真理的爱的结合、良善本身与真理本身的结合，以及在上帝里面的爱与智的结合。这在他1768年的著作《婚姻之爱》中得到了最完整的呈现。
｛注3｝：至今还不知道什么是婚姻之爱，也不知道它是从哪里来的（2727）。婚姻之爱就是意愿对方所意愿的，因而是相互的意愿（2731）。在婚姻之爱中的人一起居住在生命的至内层（2732）。两个心智如此的结合，以至于他们从爱中成为一（10168，10169）。因为心智的爱（是属灵的爱）就是一种结合（1594，2057，3939，4018，5807，6195，7081-7086，7501，10130）。
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367. 天堂的婚姻是两人合为一个心智的结合. 首先, 有必要解释一下该结合的性质. 心智由两部分构成, 一部分被称为理解力, 另一部分被称为意愿. 当这两部分行如一体时, 它们便被称为一个心智. 在天堂, 丈夫扮演名为理解力的角色, 妻子扮演名为意愿的角色. 当属于人之内层的结合降至属于身体的较低部分时, 它被察觉并感受为爱, 这爱就是婚姻之爱. 由此可见, 婚姻之爱来源于合为一个心智的这两人的结合. 这在天堂被称为“同居”; 他们不再被称为“二”, 而被称为“一”. 所以在天堂, 当提到配偶双方时, 不是指两位天使, 而是指一位天使.
注: 婚姻的性质和源头如今不为人知(天国的奥秘 2727节). 婚姻之爱就是意愿对方所意愿的, 因而是相互的意愿(天国的奥秘 2731节). 处于婚姻之爱的人一起居于生命的至内层(天国的奥秘 2732节). 这是两个心智的结合, 以致他们由于爱而为一(天国的奥秘 10168, 10169节). 因为心智的爱, 即属灵之爱, 就是一种结合(天国的奥秘 1594, 2057, 3939, 4018, 5807, 6195, 7081-7086, 7501, 10130节).
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367. 天國的婚姻是兩人心靈的結合, 乃至成為一個心靈。首先, 我得解釋該結合的性質。心靈由兩部分構成, 一為認知, 一為意志。當兩者合而為一, 便稱為一個心靈。在天國, 丈夫扮演認知的角色, 妻子扮演意志的角色。當心靈的結合下降到外在的身體, 就被察覺和感受為愛, 該愛即婚姻之愛(簡稱"婚愛")。
由此可見, 婚姻之愛源于兩人心靈的結合。在天國, 該結合被稱為"同住,"他們不再稱為"二,"而稱為"一"。在天國, 配偶雙方不是稱為兩位天人, 而是一位天人。
367. Marriage in the heavens is the union of two people into one mind. First, I need to explain the nature of this union. The mind consists of two parts, one called intellect and the other called volition. When these two parts are acting as one, we call them one mind. In heaven, the husband plays the role labeled intellect and the wife the role called volition. When this union - a union of their deeper natures - comes down into their lower, bodily natures, it is perceived and felt as love. That love is marriage love.
We can see from this that marriage love finds its source in the union of two people in one mind. In heaven, this is called "living together," and they are not called "two" but "one." Consequently two spouses in heaven are not called two angels but one angel. 1
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1. The nature and source of marriage love are unknown at the present time: 2727. Marriage love is willing what the other wills - mutually, then, and reciprocally: 2731. People who are immersed in marriage love are living together at the deepest level of their lives: 2732. It is a union of two minds so that they become one because of their love: 10168-10169; since the love of minds, which is a spiritual love, is a union: 1594, 2057, 3939, 4018, 5807, 6195, 7081-7086, 7501, 10130.
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367. Marriage in heaven is a conjunction of two into one mind. It will first be explained what this conjunction is. The mind consists of two parts, one called the understanding and the other the will. When these two parts act as one they are said to be one mind. In heaven the husband acts the part called the understanding and the wife acts the part called the will. When this conjunction, which belongs to man's interiors, descends into the lower things pertaining to the body, it is perceived and felt as love, and this love is conjugial love. From this it is clear that conjugial love has its origin in the conjunction of two into one mind. This in heaven is called cohabitation; and it is said that they are not two but one. So in heaven a married pair is spoken of, not as two, but as one angel. 1
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1. It is not known at this day what conjugial love is, or whence it is (Arcana Coelestia 2727).
Conjugial love is willing what another wills, thus willing mutually and reciprocally (Arcana Coelestia 2731).
Those who are in conjugial love dwell together in the inmosts of life (Arcana Coelestia 2732).
It is such a union of two minds that from love they are one (Arcana Coelestia 10168-10169).
For the love of minds, which is spiritual love, is a union (Arcana Coelestia 1594, 2057, 3939, 4018, 5807, 6195, 7081-7086, 7501, 10130).
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367. Marriage in heaven is a conjunction of two into one mind. It must first be explained what this conjunction is. The mind consists of two parts, one called the understanding and the other the will. When these two parts act as one they are called one mind. In heaven the husband acts the part called the understanding and the wife acts the part called the will. When this conjunction, which belongs to man's interiors, descends into the lower parts pertaining to the body, it is perceived and felt as love, and this love is marriage love. This shows that marriage love has its origin in the conjunction of two into one mind. This in heaven is called cohabitation; and the two are not called two but one. So in heaven a married pair is spoken of, not as two, but as one angel. 1
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367. Conjugium in caelis est conjunctio duorum in unam mentem Qualis illa conjunctio est, primum explicabitur Mens consistit ex binis partibus, quarum una vocatur intellectus, altera voluntas. Cum duae illae partes unum agunt, tunc dicuntur una mens. Maritus ibi agit illam partem quae vocatur intellectus, et uxor illam quae vocatur voluntas. Cum haec conjunctio, quae est interiorum, descendit in inferiora quae sunt corporis eorum, tunc illa percipitur et sentitur ut amor: is amor est amor conjugialis. Ex quibus patet, quod amor conjugialis originem ducat a conjunctione duorum in unam mentem. Hoc vocatur in caelo cohabitatio; et dicitur non duo esse sed unum; quaproter duo conjuges in caelo non vocantur duo sed unus angelus. 1
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